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Mar 15, 2009

THE CONFESSION OF A GAY FATHER

"Kapag gusto mo, may paraan.
Kapag ayaw mo, may dahilan."
- this is the line I quoted from I love Betty La Fea's episode last week.



You know it is hard to admit to your father that you are gay. But I realized it is harder to tell your son that his father is a gay.

Hiding my identity was one of the difficult stages in my life. I learned to accept myself then.
But I just realized it is more difficult to hide the reality to your son.

I want my son back.
But I am afraid to tell the fact.


If you discovered that your father is a gay, what will be your reaction?


If you happened to be a gay would you introduce yourself to your child?



14 comments:

princess_dyanie said...

where's your son? remember that truth will always set you free and magka baliktad baliktad man ang mundo eh mag ama kayo so u have to love and accept one another.

pray and trust God. :)

kcatwoman said...

i think that if he learns early in his life he will have time to adjust and live at ease with the truth or not adjust at all cause he will grow up knowing th truth all along. it really depends on you. i wish you all the best

Fjordan Allego said...

kuya, napaisip ako dito sa entry mo na to. Bakit po? May anak ka na po? asan? nagbreak na kayo ng asawa mo? ang gulo! ang dami kong tanong...

http://fjordz-hiraya.blogspot.com

""rare*jonRez"" said...

it's a matter of honesty and acceptance Red. I'm sure you're wise enough to do what is right. :) Good luck!

RJ said...

Kaninong kwento ba ito, Red?

Reena said...

so hindi pa alam ng anak mo? hmmm. mahirap nga yan. though i agree with princess dyanie. just be honest with your kid while he's still young. i think you should also consult your family and friends. i wish you all well. :)

rara said...

sir you know what to do, kung anu sa tingin mo ang nararapat, un ang gawin mo, ok?

Christian Bryan said...

"Kapag gusto mo, may paraan.
Kapag ayaw mo, may dahilan."


This is so true... Kalimitan yang quote na yan ang nagseset ng mga maling expecttaions naten kaya tayo madalas mabigo!

May anak ka pala Kuya Red, I didn't know that. Hmmmm, sa mundo ngayon kasi dapat open minded tayong lahat. Ipaintindi mo lang skanya as early as possible. I know that it wouldn't be easy pero just think na it's gonna be more difficult kapag huli na...

kaya u yan! :)

sheng said...

red, accept the fact that it is so, and tell your son about the truth, whatever it is, he will understand. It is not about the preferred gender, it is always about the personality and the love and care you give him.

Blue Rose said...

hi red,nasaan ang anak mo? tell him the truth as early as you can. the truth will really set you free. for sure matatanggap ka nya.

the donG said...

may kilala na akong ganito. parang ok naman yata sila. nagka limang anak pa siya. hehehe...

coolwaterworks said...

baw kabudlay sang pamangkot... sometimes, hapos lang maghambal nga the truth will set your free... Actually may sugpon na siya, the truth will set your free but at first it will make you miserable... :)

The Lord will lead you and will enlighten you... Ask Him... :)

Will pray for you...

Lawstude said...

just be honest red. di na issue yan ngayon.

Sreisaat said...

Basta, Red, kung ano man imo desisyon, ti... suportahan ta lang ka! :)