I read this in my friendster's bulletin board. It's from the account of my godson. He celebrated his 1st year birthday last October 5. It was actually her mom who wrote and posted this: It's a real situation of separation.
i hate it every tym iv read msgs and staff having competition bwt me.. deyjust dont realyz hw much it afects me samday...so, pls think a hunrdred times before yo put sam mushy comments because its me hus affected bout it...u jst dont knw wat ur doing.. my fader s competing wd my mom...dad, u rili hav to do dat? s dat 4me or for urself???? r u feeling good bout it? i rili feel bad bwt it..so, pls stop those competition..cz ds s not a competition. U WANT THNGS TO BE AS SMOOTH AS POSSIBLE FOR ME..so,y uv to compete? ur my fader and shs my moder and no one and nothng cud erase dat fact.. after ol, m ur child and youre my parents.. no one owns me but youBOTH..
I dunno what really the reason of their separation. I have no right to ask. They are young couple and they both have the custody of their child. One week with his mom and another week with his dad and so on.. The child himself is really the one suffering in such situation.
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Arrghhh my only complaint, nahilo ako sa kababasa. HiNdi Ba KaiLAngaN GaNiTO KunG sUMuLAT?
Hahaha, wala lang. hehehee.
halatang sanay na sanay sa pagte text, lol! well, sa separation talaga ng parents, its always the kids who suffer most pero mas unfair naman for the kids kung magsasama ang magulang kahit di na talaga magkasundo, just for the sake of the kids. Sa una, di man yan maintindihan ng mga bata, they will slowly realize and understand the situation pagdating ng araw, only time can tell. For me, mas maganda na ipaintindi sa mga bata ang real situation b4 it becomes worse. TY Red!
kawawa naman ang bata.. sabi nga ni mrs t.. dapat nga ipaintindi sa bata ang dapat niyang malaman bago maging komplekado ang sitwasyon.. at ikaw ang nasa tamamng position bro REDLAN..lol.. btw, pwede karin naman magadvise sa kanya... ;)
I agree with Mrs. T. Oo nga sabihin na natin na hindi fair sa mga bata... pero hindi din naman fair sa mga magulang ng bata na magsama pa sila kung wala na silang pinagkakasunduan at respeto sa isa't-isa. Hindi fair sa kanilang lahat yan. Mas may chance pa siguro na mapabuti ang mga bata kung maghihiwalay na ang mga magulang nila na hindi na magkasundo. Sooner or later they will sure understand it. Yan lang naman po ang aking opinyon :) Hello Red! :D
K, hehehe. ganyan ang magsulat ang mga sanay sa text. copy-paste lang yan kasi.
Oo nga Mrs. T. sanay na sanay magtext.
May tama ka Mrs. T. Huwag ipilit kung hindi na talaga magkasundo.
Na-aagawan sila @ BugITs. Tama nga naman.
Tama ka Roselle. Pero maliit pa kasi yung bata. Maintindihan naman niya paglaki niya.
Thanks sa opinyon mo at salamat din sa pacomment.
ndi naman cguro yung mother nia nagsulat nian. mga bata ngaun e openminded na sa ganitong instances. nasasaktan din cla though ndi nila sinasabi sa parents nila verbally, thru any other means maipahiwatig nila yung feeling nila towards the chaos inside their family.
i feel so sorry to hear these things. muntikan nadin maging gnito cla mama and papa but then we managed to save their relationship.
advise your grandson kuya. tutal, kahit anong anggulo mo tingnan, apo mo padin naman xa. at the end of the day, it is him who will solve his problem with his family. ayaw mo din naman makialam. atleast comfort him.
mother niya talaga nagsulat niyan. ginawan siya ng account sa friendster ng mother niya. tapos yung father niya gumawa rin ng sariling account. medyo pinag agawan nila yung bata. nagkaroon ng condition na 0ne week sa tatay a one week sa nanay and so on..
wala pang alam ang bata sa situation at hindi pa niya naintindihan ito kasi nag isang taon pa lamang siya noong nakaraan na friday.
thanks sa pagcomment princess. take care
RED, for me a think dats one of d worse situation d child can be in (just like d recent rant of Mrs J, having separate parents). I think magiging trauma ito for d child while growing. And there will come to a point when d child will think that it was his/her fault kaya nag separate parents nya! tsk, tsk. Pero sometimes, esp. these present times, we cannot do anything. I learned sa mga marriage counselling most of the time na when a marriage is on d rocks, its not dont consider d reason na kaya the couple should stick together kc kawawa ang anak kc they might both live "in hell" while they are still joined. Pero kawawa talaga ang mga bata na ang mga separated magulang already have their own families. The children are usually left out, feeling unloved!
RED, if u r dats child tito, i think you should have especial bond with dat kid para lumaki na mas maraming nagmamahal sa kanya.
I think, correct me if i'm wrong, One of the best way to Save a marriage is if You believe in its SANCTITY. Dat God is d one who joined you together! haaayyy....
i pray dat that child will always fell loved by God! :)
Salamat sa comment mo Josh. It is worth advice. Marami rin akong na-meet na product ng broken family. kulang sila sa pagmamahal. Kawawa tuloy. I give them special attention at magmamahal. At pinapadama ko na may halaga rin sila.
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